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Wedding Lessons: What Melissa and Adam Taught Me About Taking the Shot (and Why It Matters for Life)
If you think trying is risky, wait till they hand you the bill for not trying. It’s a line I say often—because I’ve lived it, I’ve seen...
Ben Silverberg
Apr 14 min read
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The Secret to a Strong Marriage? Celebrate Each Other—Every Single Day
One of the most powerful lessons I teach in my CoolCantor Bar and Bat Mitzvah training program is this: celebrate someone else—every...
Ben Silverberg
Mar 274 min read
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The Secret to a Strong Marriage: Never Making Quitting an Option
Jewish Wedding Toronto: A Lesson in Resilience from Jen & Adam Most people think quitting is a moment—a single decision made in...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 244 min read
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The Power of Decision in Marriage: How Melissa & Jack’s Jewish Wedding in Toronto Taught a Life-Changing Lesson
Jewish Wedding Toronto: The Moment That Changes Everything Success isn’t about luck. Confidence isn’t about waiting for the right time....
Ben Silverberg
Feb 244 min read
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Jewish Wedding Wisdom: Why Prioritizing Yourself Strengthens Your Marriage
Hook: The Oxygen Mask Rule Applies to Marriage You’ve heard it before—on every flight, in every safety briefing: “Put your oxygen mask on...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 243 min read
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The Power of Mentorship in Jewish Weddings: Alyssa and Dave’s Transformative Journey in Toronto
One of life’s most profound experiences is hearing your name in someone else’s testimonial—not because you sought it, but because you...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 243 min read
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The Power of Impact: The Legacy of Your Wedding and the Words That Last a Lifetime
Have You Ever Heard Your Name in Someone Else’s Testimonial? Not because you asked for it. Not because you expected it. But because you...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 244 min read
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Cultivating a Growth Mindset: Lessons from Diana and Jason’s Jewish Wedding in Toronto
In the journey toward personal and relational success, the significance of mindset cannot be overstated. As a Jewish wedding cantor in...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 243 min read
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Jewish Wedding Wisdom: The Secret to a Strong Marriage—Never Quit on Each Other
Quitting Isn’t a Moment—It’s a Habit Most people think quitting is a single moment—a decision they make once. But the truth? Quitting is...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 244 min read
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More Than Hollywood—The Powerful Legacy of Michelle Trachtenberg and What It Teaches Us About Strength in Marriage
A Legacy Beyond the Screen Stop scrolling—this one hits deep. Michelle Trachtenberg, known for her unforgettable roles in Harriet the...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 244 min read
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Jewish Weddings and the Truth About Burnout: A Lesson in Resilience
Feeling Overwhelmed? You’re Not Burnt Out—You Just Got Hit In today’s world, any sign of exhaustion gets labeled as burnout. People...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 204 min read
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Jewish Wedding Toronto: When You Rise, Not Everyone Will Celebrate—And That’s Okay
When You Are Blessed, Not Everyone Will Cheer When God blesses you, don’t expect a standing ovation. Some people will love you until you...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 204 min read
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Jewish Wedding Wisdom: You Didn’t Waste Time—You Built Experience
Introduction: The Truth About ‘Wasted Time’ Ever feel like you made the wrong decision? Picked the wrong path? Spent years on something...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 194 min read
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How to Create a Positive Marriage Environment
Introduction: The People Around You Shape Your Future They say misery loves company—but here’s the truth: you don’t have to accept the...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 114 min read
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Jewish Wedding Wisdom: Burnout Isn’t the End—It’s a Moment
Introduction: Are You Really Burnt Out? Years ago, if you were feeling off, you’d say you were tired or just having a bad day. Today?...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 104 min read
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Jewish Wedding Lessons: You Teach People How to Treat You—Here’s How to Take Control
Introduction: The Foundation of Every Strong Marriage In marriage, as in life, the way you allow others to treat you is a reflection of...
Ben Silverberg
Feb 64 min read
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Fear and Love in Marriage: Stepping Through the Fog Together
Jewish Wedding Toronto – The Power of Facing Fear Together Fear is a strange thing—it feels massive, like a wall standing between you and...
Ben Silverberg
Jan 314 min read
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Master Your Emotions, Master Your Marriage: A Lesson from a Jewish Wedding in Toronto
Why Emotions Shape Your Life and Marriage You could have everything—love, financial security, family, and even a spectacular Jewish...
Ben Silverberg
Jan 314 min read
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Stop Spending to Impress: A Lesson for Building Meaningful Jewish Marriages
In every wedding I officiate, I am reminded of the deep and beautiful significance of focusing on what truly matters in life. When...
Ben Silverberg
Jan 294 min read
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Stop Dwelling and Embrace Joy: A Lesson for Weddings and Life
One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned as a Jewish Wedding Cantor is how important it is to let go of past mistakes and focus on...
Ben Silverberg
Jan 284 min read
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