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Jewish Wedding Toronto: A Night Out with an Unexpected Lesson

Ben Silverberg


A few years ago, my wife and I, along with another couple, went to a restaurant for an 8 o’clock reservation. You can imagine our hunger by the time we were seated. However, our server seemed to be ignoring us, and it took about 30 minutes before another server brought us waters. Despite not being our server, her kindness stood out.


When I went up to use the bathroom in the middle of the meal, I decided to give this kind server some money as a thank you. Her shock and gratitude were palpable, and the joy I felt in rewarding her kindness was unforgettable. This act of kindness is like giving a friend your last piece of candy—it feels good to make someone's day better!


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Another experience that profoundly impacted me was participating in a program called Out of the Cold. Every Thursday night, friends and I would prepare and serve food to homeless people at a local church. The gratitude and appreciation in the eyes of those receiving a warm meal were unforgettable. It felt as though I was not just feeding someone but possibly saving a life from starvation. Seeing the gratitude in their eyes as you hand them a warm meal is like helping a friend in a tough time and seeing them smile because of what you did.


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Generosity isn't just about big gestures; it's also about the small things we do every day. Think about a time you helped someone or shared something important to you. How did it make you feel? Remember, every act of kindness, no matter how small, can have a big impact.


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Max and Jennifer, a Jewish couple, came to me to officiate their Jewish wedding ceremony. Getting to know them and helping them strengthen their relationship through the lesson of generosity was a wonderful experience.


Max and Jennifer were delighted that I officiated their ceremony in a quaint venue in West Toronto. I spoke about what they love about each other and why they were choosing to marry one another. I sang beautifully and incorporated some modern melodies from Broadway, which they really appreciated. This personal touch not only made their Jewish wedding ceremony special but also highlighted the importance of generosity and kindness in their relationship.


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Years later, they called me to officiate the baby naming ceremony of their daughter. This time, the ceremony was filled with the same warmth and generosity. The joy of helping them welcome their newborn into the Jewish community was immeasurable. This act of generosity, giving my time and care, strengthened our bond even further.


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I love building relationships that last a lifetime. Some of the brides I’ve married are the same individuals whose bat mitzvah ceremonies I officiated years ago. This continuity in relationships is a testament to the power of generosity and kindness.


I can't wait to hear your stories of being generous and giving! How have you made a difference in someone's life? Share with me and let’s learn from each other about the joy of giving. Looking forward to helping you achieve your dream wedding. Sincerely Cantor Ben

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